Lingerie is a hard thing to buy

It’s tough being a voluptuous lady looking for sexy lingerie. It either doesn’t fit, or it hug and highlights the wrong bits, it makes you look shapeless, but probably most of all they are just not sexy enough. Things have moved on in resent years and underwear designers have recognised that bigger girls want sexy and passionate too and they have moved away from the traditional ‘tents’ that they used to design for the fuller figured woman – Hooray.

However, it does still take longer for big girls to buy sexy underwear because high street shops don’t really cater for the voluptuous woman, they just have a couple of token gesture items. Which means a trek around every shop to check out the limited ranges, and then you have to nip back tot he shops where you saw the items that you liked the best. What a rigmarole!

Hot Sexy Lingerie is a hard thing to buy. It's not just about getting the right size as with other clothing gifts. It's also about the fear of getting the wrong style. Or the wrong color. Or the wrong fabric. But there are a few lingerie buying tips that might help you to pick a lingerie gift worthy of your lady’s attention.

1. Not every woman wants erotic lingerie. Take a minute to think of what your loved one might want. Is she a tomboy? A girly girl? A power monger? It's not a good idea to buy flimsy, see-through, lacy lingerie for someone who can't stand to wear a skirt. Be aware. Don't buy what you want to see her in. Chances are it will end up sitting in her underwear drawer next to the old-fashioned granny panties.

2. If you let her show her personality, you might get to see a lot more. Don't buy a leopard print lingerie set if your lady likes to walk around the house in Mickey Mouse P.J.‘s. Definitely don't go leather unless you've seen her wild streak. Keep an inventory of the types of clothes she likes to wear. Does she prefer loose clothing? Try a nightgown or camisole, which are both loose-fitting. A chemise, a gown-style with spaghetti or halter straps, is another good choice. If she likes to squeeze into her clothes, something more form-fitting would be appropriate. She might like a Lycra teddy, for example. Or, a simple negligee with a tight-fitting addition, such as a garter or corset.MORE:Cheap Hot Sexy Lingerie